I was absent today but I heard something happened today.Let's give a scenario where XL any Mary have been best friends for ages.And lately X has been leaving Mary out to hang out with her new friends who are also incidentally enemies of Mary. Can you imagine if your friends haven't been inviting you to their outings and worse they bring your worse enemy?
So Mary asks XL, are we still friends? And X tells Mary "Wad if I tell you you are no longer my BFF?"
And then XL brings 'new friend incidentally also enemy of Mary' to attack Mary, who is incidentally teary. XL kindly tells Mary how her life sucks when she's friends with Mary (because supposedly Mary isn't popular enough to be her BFF, right and XL is soo popular) and how Miss New Friend told her that Mary leaked out her secret. XL believes Miss New Friend of course (does it not cross your mind that your new friend hates Mary and might intentionally want to break you two up?) and proceeds to hurt Mary more. Mary apologises on the slip of her tongue, which isn't even a very big thing and also was not mainly her fault. Mary told XL's secret to someone she thought she could trust but it spreaded and apparently XL has been pissed off for a month hence treating Mary like a dog for a month then finally, with the help of Miss New Friend manages to confront Mary.
Seriously, you should forgive and forget. You have been friends forever. I feel that your ditching Mary for a month and making her cry a lot kinda cancels out whatever backstabbing she allegedly did to you. I know how you think I don't know anything but all I can say is Mary is my friend and you dumped your best friend. Which kinda makes it hard for me to see eye-to-eye about. Next time I see you it will be that I can only see someone who hurt her best friend(she cried a lot), and what's more brought Miss New Friend Whom Mary and I Do Not Tolerate to confront Mary.
It's like Miranda ditching Lizzie for Kate and then bringing Kate to attack Lizzie.
What's more XL had the nerve to say her life was pathetic when she hung out with Mary. Meaning what? That Mary is dragging your extremely well-endowed social life down? That Mary is unpopular and embarrassing to you? Ouch.
Worse is XL acts like Mary's at fault. XL acts like she suffered a tragic pain herself. I quote XL "I'll be the bigger person and forgive you. I was so upset. I can't believe you did this to me".
Who did worse? Does someone who accidentally leaked out your unimportant secret deserve to be manipulated like you did ? Hurting Mary and then bravely holding up your chin because it hurt you too, and you should be shown a lot of sympathy because you just broke your best friend's heart?
I say she's better off without you. Don't go pretending to be the hurt heroine here, when you ditched, lied, badmouthed, and confronted Mary and hurt her deeply while she apologized back. For your own sense of right and wrong. Since she's so wrong for her accident right?
I will now end my first angry rant for a very long time.
Maybe Mary is so much better off without you. Any longer with you and she would be hurt more. Mary "failed to pass" your standards of being your BFF.
Mary has other friends and I hope one day you can wake up and realise you shouldn't have hurt her. You break hearts and get your own broken. You played your own best friend and she's crying and you don't care.
There. From the bottom of my heart.
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